Posted on June 28, 2010 by Cathy
Each evening at dinner have a different member of the family lead the grace, then follow it with a “plus and minus” statement—that person’s opportunity to tell one positive and one negative aspect of his or her day. Each family member then takes a turn with the plus and minus statement. Only after each person has said his or her two items does free-flowing conversation begin. David M. Thomas, father of seven children and 74 foster children, and author of A Community of Love: Spirituality of Family Life (ACTA), has been doing this with his family for almost 30 years. “As a parent, I have found this ritual a remarkably painless way to find out what is going on in the lives of our children.”
—by Annemarie Scobey, from At Home with Our Faith newsletter, which just won the 2010 award for General Excellence from the Catholic Press Association.
Take a look at At Home with Our Faith, Claretian Publications’ print newsletter for parents on nurturing spirituality in the home—read a sample issue. We offer very low rates for parish use, as well as our free Moms’ Night Out monthly discussion guides.
And don’t miss our popular single-page parish handouts on handing on the faith, helping kids understand the Mass, Lent, and Advent.
Filed under: Family spirituality, Handing on the faith | Tagged: A Community of Love: Spirituality of Family Life, David M. Thomas, family dinners, plus and minus statement | Leave a Comment »
Posted on September 24, 2009 by Cathy
Stock up on mac & cheese or whatever is your kids’ favorite dinner in preparation for Family Day – A Day to Eat Dinner with Your Children, which will be celebrated across the country this Monday, September 28.
Family Day is brought to you by the folks at The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University (CASA). CASA Chairman Joseph A. Califano, Jr. says, “If I could wave a magic wand to make a dent in our nation’s substance abuse problem, I would make sure that every child in America had dinner with his or her parents at least five times a week.”
And while you’re at it, check out CASA’s research on raising drug-free kids.
Filed under: Handing on the faith | Tagged: drug-free kids, Family Day - A Day to Eat Dinner with Your Children, family dinners, Joseph A. Califano, Jr., kids and drugs, kids and substance abuse, The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University | 1 Comment »