Take a snow day this Lent (part two)

What should be “closed” this Lent?

Real snow days dawn with every television and radio station listing schools and workplaces that are closed. Perhaps our Lent should begin with a list of the non-essentials that rob us of time to give to God and our community.

Television and Internet: Give up some TV and Internet time and give yourself the gift of taking a half hour to journal, read a spiritual book, or pray the rosary.

E-mail and texting: Yes, these can be great ways to communicate, but they can also take us away from the people who are in our presence right now. Like all forms of communication, they need to be contained. Choose a block of time during the day that you will commit to no electronic communication. A candle burning quietly on the counter can be a reminder not to run to the computer for a quick check.

Shopping: Shopping as entertainment offers little in the area of spiritual satisfaction. Instead try spending more time outdoors, at museums, or visiting other places that help you look at the world beyond yourself. Consider using the money you save as part of your Lenten alms.

Unhealthy habits: Whether you gossip, smoke, eat, or drink too much, any unhealthy habit can get in the way of our becoming all that God intends. Lent can be an opportunity to clear our lives of some things that stand between God and us.

By Annemarie Scobey, from the archives of At Home with Our Faith newsletter

Take a snow day this Lent, part one

The analogy of Lent as a desert has never worked for me. I was born and raised in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, and except for a year spent in Chicago, I’ve lived here my whole life. When Lent arrives in Wisconsin, winter is only half over. Last year, Ash Wednesday in Milwaukee was ushered in with a blizzard that closed every school and most businesses in the metro area. To me that snowstorm is a fitting beginning to what Lent should be about every year. 
Lent, when done right, should begin by shutting everything down. Last year’s blizzard turned what would have been a typically complicated day—school, practices, errands—into a very simple one. All six of us home together, shoveling and eating vegetable soup. It can be hard to see what in our lives is essential if we never take time to step away. Lent provides the opportunity to take a spiritual snow day. It is a time of “closing” some of the non-essentials in our lives. 
The interminable snow and ice of Wisconsin’s February can be a spiritual analogy for Lent just as surely as the more traditional dryness and sand. When I struggle to see God’s presence in my life, it is usually because I’m in the middle of a situation that seems impossible. If I turn one way, there’s cold wind whipping on my face; the other way I’m hit with freezing rain. 

If the desert analogy of Lent is about being alone, a winter analogy of Lent has to involve people. Winter makes you want to huddle. While we know well the story of Jesus spending 40 days in the desert by himself, I doubt that if he lived in a different climate, he would have gone into the cold, snowy forest alone for the same amount of time. Winter alone can be dangerous. Lent alone can be dangerous, too. 

Perhaps in no church season is the community as important as it is during Lent. In looking into ourselves and seeing our own brokenness, we need to be around people who are doing the same. Jesus himself recognized that he shouldn’t be alone in his most difficult hour—and desperately asked his disciples not to leave him by falling asleep. 

The icy winds of Lent require us to find people to huddle with. The prayer, fasting, and almsgiving of Lent underline the importance of this community huddle. We pray and fast with our community, and then we give alms to those who need our help. Though Ash Wednesday is not a holy day of obligation, we turn out at church in great numbers. We know we belong together on this day. We know we cannot be alone in the cold.   …next week, part two: What should be “closed” for Lent?

By Annemarie Scobey, from the archives of At Home with Our Faith newsletter

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Handouts for your parish from At Home with Our Faith.                      View these samples, then call 1-800-328-6515 to order or use this                    Homefaith Basics faxable order form

Advent and Christmas family handouts:

Four ways to light up your family’s Advent

Slow down your family’s Christmas

Lent and Holy Week family handouts:

14 family lessons from the Stations of the Cross

Take the plunge into Lent

40 ways to deepen your family’s faith this Lent

What Jesus is dying to show you: A family guide to Holy Week 

Handouts on Mass and Handouts on Mass :

Mass: It does a family good

12 ways to bring family life to Mass

8 ways that parish and parents can be partners

A parent’s 10 Commandments for passing on the faith

Who is your kids’ best teacher of the faith? You are!

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